Assalamualaikum.
Greetings.
Sometimes we do feel hurt, or feel down because of words or actions of others. And when we do feel that, we will tend to pull a long face and be quiet of it and expect the others to notice and try to console us. Some other will just forget about it and try to make themselves busy and some will just be alone and try to console themselves.
At least I do all those said above, depends on the situation.
Usually when we feel hurt, we tend to think that we are the victim of the circumstances and visualize and reminisce on all the mishap that we had to endure in life and just assume that we are always the unlucky ones and worst, life is over.
But did it ever occur to us that in the same situation, others were hurt by us first, by our actions and our words, that resulted to the actions and words that made us feel hurt?
Do you get me, or are you confused? If you are confused, just try repeating the sentence slowly, try to improve reading skills. ;P
It never did occur to me until yesterday, where I learnt about this, the hard way.
There was an event last night, I ditched a replacement class after one hour, and excitedly went to the event. When I got there, someone made me feel ignored and changed my mood. I was feeling happy for the first 20 minutes, then my good mood was gone. It was ruined. I bought my cameras, yeah plural, camera with S, hoping to have many shots as memories, but I just took one photo. There goes my day.
To top it all, the person that made me feel moody didn't even try to console me, even though I was clearly wasn't being my usual self, or so I thought. I just sat there playing games on my phone.
Never did it occur to me that it was me who hurt that person's feelings first. I was merely joking and responding like how I usually respond. Never did I know that it was me who ruined the day myself. Serves me right.
What I want to say here is that, you may have feelings, and you may feel hurt. But do remember that others have feelings too, and they may feel hurt too.
So be cautious in your words and actions.
Goodbye!
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Ya Allah dah lah gambar jadi tak lawa sebab gelap sangat terpaksa brighten the photo and then upload kat blogger jadi lagi super buruk. Pfft!
I know I am a bad listener, a bad motivator, have issues with my temper and sometimes can be exceptionally violent but please bear with it as I try to improve on 'em. I'm trying, that I can promise you.
